MY SIBLING IS EVERYTHING FOR ME (SISTER & BROTHER)

 Moving away from the focus of a large group of important people, I want to focus on the most important treasure-our siblings. If you see around you, there are no siblings in peace, whether the brother is elder, the sister is, or both are almost the same age or even younger. Rivalry in this case can never know any heights. You fight like retards, and then become friends like you had never fought!! Sibling rivalry is a type of competition or animosity among brothers and sisters. This can involve aggression, use of slang language, hitting each other, slapping hard, or even breaking each other’s things. Such rivalries can be very stressful and frustrating for parents to handle. It is likely that sibling rivalry can continue into adulthood and sibling relationships can change dramatically over the years.

Each of the siblings in the family competes to define who they are as person and want to show that they are separate, unique and can do much better than their other siblings. Such a rivalry increases when children feel they are getting unequal amounts of their parent’s attention, where there is stress in the parent’s and children’s lives, and where fighting is accepted by the family as a way to resolve conflicts.

It is a fact- with fights, a relationship develops, but with such developments, you get to see different faces of your closed ones. You realize being nice to you is not the only thing they know. They behave this way because they love you, and they only do it for your betterment. But sometimes in life, you tend to look upon such people as your need, but you only make it a point to have them when you think you want them. Very few relationships around you are a source of living for each other, and which does not create a line between what you need or want, because those people make it a point to be there for you even when you need them the least.

You have less time, or maybe you don’t even know how much time you are going to spend with the people close to you. You tend to lose them as you go through life. It is then you realize that when you lose them, or they move far away from your, their truest value is realized. What they were when they were with you was never considered or understood when they were right in front of your eyes. When they find an aim for their own, you sit back and think what you have done to yourself and your life. You realize their aim was not to be there only for you, but they had a life of their own. Is this what you have always wanted? How quickly you judged them, but always misunderstood the real person inside them.

 It’s about how nicely and trustfully you put yourself into their hands when you give them a chance to tell you that you need to correct certain aspects within yourself. There is nothing in life that you cannot do. You can make one understand what they are to you; you can trust them when someone tells you what you mean to them; you can watch out for the unexpected, yet the best turn that they want to give to your life; you can reach out and express yourself before it’s too late!! Always remember that the closest of all to you are the ones that are to be treasured and kept as a gift of life. There is no one out there like you yourself are so be what you are, and value the ones who are closest to you, before they out or away from your life

Just a note to add here:

My younger brother/sister is a treasure of my life. We have fought a lot and we still do. we have spoken words which I don’t even know what they stand for. With these fights developed our relations of a brother/sister sibling and with these we have found in each other a companion, and someone who is always there to listen, guided and lead to the right decision. It is almost a year that he has gone to university for his studies (now in examination session), and I wish him all the best everything he does in his life.